the bloody truth

Here's a random fact about me: I don't like having sex when I'm on my period.

If you're a guy (or even a gal) who gets squeamish about this topic, escape while you still can. I don't mean to gross anyone out. I'm just thinking out loud.

If you're still with me, there's a reason I mention this. The other night my lover wanted to get frisky and I told him that I'm on my period. He pointed out that we can always use a towel. Yes, I suppose we could. I have had sex on my period before and I feel ambivalent about it.

Pro: it feels great. When Aunt Flo is around, my hormones are crazy and I really want sex. I've heard that sex helps with the cramps, and I think there's some truth in that.

Con: it's so goddamn messy. I know that most guys don't mind the mess. Fortunately my partner is a mature guy who won't say "ew" when he sees a drop of blood. He doesn't mind the clean up, but I feel like it ruins the mood. We both run to the bathroom to clean up. Then I have to make sure there aren't any wayward spots on the bed.

It's not the yuck factor that bothers me. It's the clean up. It's such a hassle that I don't like to bother.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm being a prude about it. Maybe I should just follow my lust and not worry about the cleaning factor. Sex is great no matter what. Should a little blood get in the way of pleasure?