My sex life is boring
well, let me take that back...my sex life is really fantastic at the moment. My guy is the most generous lover I've ever met, and we've been tearing up the sheets on a regular basis. I'm getting great, toe-curling, mattress-grabbing, knees-wobbling sex. I do believe I've hit my sexual peak...
What I mean to say is that my sex life is too boring for a sex blog. Technically this isn't a sex blog, and I'm not a sex blogger. Technically. I'm an erotica writer, and I use this blog to post my writings and give you a glimpse into the daily grind.
Sometimes I find myself comparing my blog to all the adult/erotic blogs out there. There are tons of sex bloggers out there, and it seems like they're all leading such interesting lives. I bounce from blog to blog and I see writings from swingers, escorts, former sex-workers, professional dommes, bi-sexuals, D/s couples, etc.
And here I am...a straight woman who is mostly vanilla with a splash of kink. In comparison my blog seems so blah. Ho-hum. A few erotic stories here and there, but my personal posts seem so bland.
Then I have to remind myself...hey, I'm not a sex blogger. I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not. I have to resist the temptation to spice up my personal posts. I've never been in a threesome and I probably never will. I've never worked as an escort, never went to a sex club, never had sex with more than one person at a time. If you met me, you wouldn't really think I was a smut writer.
This blog won't get as many posts as the popular adult blogs, but I'm okay with that. I think I'm okay with that. Don't get me wrong...I would like to be one of those bloggers who gets thousands of hits per day. But this isn't a sex blog. It's a blog by an erotica writer who enjoys sex. I'm going to try to balance the smutty posts with the non-smutty personal posts. As the kids say, I want to keep it real. This is me...sexual, a little shy, a little kinky, made up of many layers.
What I mean to say is that my sex life is too boring for a sex blog. Technically this isn't a sex blog, and I'm not a sex blogger. Technically. I'm an erotica writer, and I use this blog to post my writings and give you a glimpse into the daily grind.
Sometimes I find myself comparing my blog to all the adult/erotic blogs out there. There are tons of sex bloggers out there, and it seems like they're all leading such interesting lives. I bounce from blog to blog and I see writings from swingers, escorts, former sex-workers, professional dommes, bi-sexuals, D/s couples, etc.
And here I am...a straight woman who is mostly vanilla with a splash of kink. In comparison my blog seems so blah. Ho-hum. A few erotic stories here and there, but my personal posts seem so bland.
Then I have to remind myself...hey, I'm not a sex blogger. I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not. I have to resist the temptation to spice up my personal posts. I've never been in a threesome and I probably never will. I've never worked as an escort, never went to a sex club, never had sex with more than one person at a time. If you met me, you wouldn't really think I was a smut writer.
This blog won't get as many posts as the popular adult blogs, but I'm okay with that. I think I'm okay with that. Don't get me wrong...I would like to be one of those bloggers who gets thousands of hits per day. But this isn't a sex blog. It's a blog by an erotica writer who enjoys sex. I'm going to try to balance the smutty posts with the non-smutty personal posts. As the kids say, I want to keep it real. This is me...sexual, a little shy, a little kinky, made up of many layers.
Labels: erotic, experiences
posted by Kis Lee at
11:45 AM
2 Comments:
I'll be honest: I stumbled upon your blog.
I have not yet had a chance to dive in and soak up as much as I can, but it's this one post that has made me want (so desperately) to read your work. What you wrote so perfectly hits the spot, it feels so right, it sticks exactly where it should.
Deeply in admiration,
.6
Hi Six, thanks for stopping by. I'm really touched by your comment. I wanted this post to be real, and I think I've accomplished that. I want to keep this modest blog as honest as possible.
I'm glad you stumbled here. :)
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