Kissing styles

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I think I'm a great kisser. Or at least that's what I've been told. I've also been lucky to have experienced great kissers. One guy was so good that I wanted to kiss him for hours. The sex was good, but it was the kissing that got me worked up. His lips and tongue fit mine perfectly.

I know that we have all have unique kissing styles. I've been involved with a guy with a kissing style that's completely opposite of mine. The first time we kissed, I thought: "what the hell is he doing?!" The funny thing is that he later told me he had the same reaction.

When I kiss, it's mostly lips with the occasional tease of the tongue. I tend to be a "sucker": I like to suck on the upper lip, the lower lip, the tongue. My kisses tend to be teasing with gentle sucking of the lips.

On the other hand, my lover licks to kiss with his tongue. He likes to lick my entire lips while kissing. His favorite thing is to twirl his tongue around mine like two snakes tangled together. I haven't been able to master that technique yet. I'm not much of a tongue-kisser. I'm more of a lips-kisser.

So far we haven't been able to reach a happy medium. Sometimes we kiss "my way" and sometimes we kiss "his way." I still haven't gotten used to his kissing style, but he has adjusted to mine. Eventually we'll figure out a kissing style that satisfies us both. I'll have to add a new kissing style to my repertoire. I'm working on it.