talk to me

A while back I mentioned that I'm not too comfortable with talking dirty in the bedroom. I loooove hearing it, but sometimes I get tongue-tied. The words don't sound right coming out of my mouth. Well, in recent weeks, I've been making more of an effort. It helps that my partner thinks I have a sexy voice.

I've always thought my voice was okay. It's not too high and not too deep. I've always wanted a sexy/husky voice aka the lounge singer voice. I don't smoke and drink enough to achieve that effect. But I digress...

So I've been testing the waters and trying out different phrases. I've discovered that it doesn't matter *what* I say. It's more about *how* I say it. When I'm turned on and wanting more, I can just say: That feels good or I like that. Simple phrases like that will get me going. The other night I yelled out "fuck me" over and over again, and it drove him crazy.

For now, it's just the small steps. I'm learning how to enjoy this. Dirty talk isn't so intimidating after all.