When I'm on top
While browsing the Sex-kitten Feed, I saw a post titled "5 ways to get her on top." The article suggests tips for getting your woman to be comfortable while she is in the woman-on-top position. Rose is right to say that some women feel self-conscious or shy while in that position.
I used to be one of those women. When I was younger, I was really self-conscious of my body. I still have some esteem issues, but back then I was more insecure. I used to wonder if the view was okay...if he enjoyed watching my body...if my boobs were flopping too much...if my stomach was flat enough. I couldn't come from that position because of all these thoughts running through my mind.
Gradually I learned one important fact: being on top feels GREAT! I can control the speed and the tempo. I'm in charge of how quickly (or slowly) I can get off. I can watch his face as I vary the strokes. I love watching a man's eyes roll in the back of his head. I also learned that guys love the view of a woman on top. I don't have to have a perfect body. He doesn't give a damn about a few pounds either way. Sometimes the guy will study my body; sometimes he will close his eyes to enjoy the sensations. I just let go of all the inhibitions and ride with abandon.
Why should I be self-conscious of my body when we're both enjoying ourselves so much? Over time I learned how to let go of the body image issues when I'm riding my man. It feels too good to worry about insignificant stuff.
My current partner loves when I'm on top. He doesn't have to coax or convince me to ride him. When he's ready for me, I just climb right on. It's a turn on for both of us. I enjoy other positions but being on top is my favorite way to start off. I love leaning forward so I can kiss him while fucking him. I love leaning back so I can feel him at a different angle. I love using my legs to bounce on him until he's writhing on the pillows. The possibilities are endless with this particular position. After I come once, then we can switch to a different position. ;)
I used to be one of those women. When I was younger, I was really self-conscious of my body. I still have some esteem issues, but back then I was more insecure. I used to wonder if the view was okay...if he enjoyed watching my body...if my boobs were flopping too much...if my stomach was flat enough. I couldn't come from that position because of all these thoughts running through my mind.
Gradually I learned one important fact: being on top feels GREAT! I can control the speed and the tempo. I'm in charge of how quickly (or slowly) I can get off. I can watch his face as I vary the strokes. I love watching a man's eyes roll in the back of his head. I also learned that guys love the view of a woman on top. I don't have to have a perfect body. He doesn't give a damn about a few pounds either way. Sometimes the guy will study my body; sometimes he will close his eyes to enjoy the sensations. I just let go of all the inhibitions and ride with abandon.
Why should I be self-conscious of my body when we're both enjoying ourselves so much? Over time I learned how to let go of the body image issues when I'm riding my man. It feels too good to worry about insignificant stuff.
My current partner loves when I'm on top. He doesn't have to coax or convince me to ride him. When he's ready for me, I just climb right on. It's a turn on for both of us. I enjoy other positions but being on top is my favorite way to start off. I love leaning forward so I can kiss him while fucking him. I love leaning back so I can feel him at a different angle. I love using my legs to bounce on him until he's writhing on the pillows. The possibilities are endless with this particular position. After I come once, then we can switch to a different position. ;)
Labels: erotic, experiences, life
posted by Kis Lee at
10:18 AM
2 Comments:
It's also great for toning the legs ;)
hah! that is true. sometimes my legs start shaking after we're done. great workout for the thighs!
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