speechless
I enjoy when a man talks dirty to me, but I take more than I give back. I rarely say the words that a guy wants to hear. The other night, I told my partner that I'm "more vocal than verbal." I'm more of a moaner (and sometimes screamer) than a dirty talker.
He looked at me and said, "What kind of porn writer are you? Don't your characters talk dirty?"
Some of them do. I have no problem having my characters get outright nasty and filthy with their language. When someone whispers those things into my ear, I get so turned on. Yet, I have trouble saying the same things out loud.
What is my problem? Maybe I need to practice. There are all these sexy/kinky things I want to say, but my mouth won't cooperate. I need to ease into it until I am comfortable. I don't want to waste the dirty words that float in my head.
Blog note: "Gym Adventure" will continue tomorrow.
He looked at me and said, "What kind of porn writer are you? Don't your characters talk dirty?"
Some of them do. I have no problem having my characters get outright nasty and filthy with their language. When someone whispers those things into my ear, I get so turned on. Yet, I have trouble saying the same things out loud.
What is my problem? Maybe I need to practice. There are all these sexy/kinky things I want to say, but my mouth won't cooperate. I need to ease into it until I am comfortable. I don't want to waste the dirty words that float in my head.
Blog note: "Gym Adventure" will continue tomorrow.
posted by Kis Lee at
11:06 AM
2 Comments:
Hey Kis,
Practicing definately makes it easier. I never ever used to talk, let alone talk dirty, but my fiance loves it. I started just saying the words on my own when I was masturbating. Then I moved do phone sex. Eventually I moved to just saying things during sex like, "That feels sooo good." Now, I can talk like a dirty little whore in bed and it drives him crazy!
Baby steps girl, baby steps.
By the way, I took over at Between the Sheets (http://www.betweensheets.net) this week so you can find me there as well as at Dreams of an Erotica Queen!
Hey Autumn,
I'm so out of practice. When I was younger, I used to be able to speak with abandon. I don't know what happened...when I started writing smut, i think my inner vixen froze up. :)
Congrats on the new blog! I'll add your links today.
Kis
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